I'VE LEARNED

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care,

some people just don't care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.

I've learned that it's not what happens to people, It's what they do about it.

I've learned that no matter how thin you slide it,there are always two sides.

I've learned that you should always have loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you'll see them.

I've learned that you can keep going, long after you think you can't.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done, When it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry,but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is,they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.

I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that no matter the consequences,

those who are honest with themselves go farther in life.

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you,you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice

and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

I've learned to love and be loved.

I've learned...

Cheers lee_skar

Its Nice To Be Back Home!!!!

Well thank god I'm back home, I miss my bed and my private space my daily routine of doing almost nothing lol well I must be lucky then. I'm 30years young still single and I'm not bothered by it although Ive had mates who try and make it there business.... really,,, BOTHERED!!!? nah why should I. I'm happy with who I am and I think I'm doing just fine. I was away for almost ten years doing my bit for the Queen of Eghlands Army, never lasted long though, It only went on for 5 years before I realised I was stuck in a dead end job but seriously, I mean seriously I'm getting myself ready for recruitment again. I could say this or slag the whole army off but still its the only place that is best suited for me. Education was my thing although I believe that sitting in class room or doing project and assignments are just way of the hook. I'm a practical sort of a person, I don't bit around the bush although I beat myself every now and then (for stress relieve only) don't get me wrong there is a reason for everything we do. OK so yes the last 4 weeks was just an adventure for me. I wanna thank everyone who gave there time and effort in trying to mould some of my ways and attitude but all I can say is MISSION ACCOMPLISH!!!!!!  job well done to you all. But now I'm back in my house, well its not mine really, its my mums, but shis not here right now, well that makes me the boss of me then its mine at the moment. Well what can I say, Ive not found a steady job yet. They made me a cook in the Queen  Of England's Army... So you can say that I'm a qualified chef, well at least that's all I know of my career. But I'm sort of in between jobs right now, Ive gone to the point of trying to open my own business, well there are chances but I still need to undo few more nots , if you know wot I mean. But still, that wont stop me from getting recruited in to the army. Well life at present can be so boring, there's no routine  but I'm just concentrating on my fitness and every other thing that will get me ready for round 2. Oh plus Ive got to clean the compound every other week. Which means I'll be up early hours of the day tomorrow to start mowing the lawn. Any way It was nice for you if you're one of my follower to stop by on my page, please do stop by always.

Thanks

   

 A Walk Of Life

Their were moments in life where you go through hard times. This point in life comes unexpectedly and according  to my own experience I wasn't strong enough to man it. It brought many tears, heart break and so many confusions. I thought I was gonna lost everything in life and I was in a wreck, I have no idea where I was. Then  I got up on a  particular morning, shook myself off and say to myself. "I Need To Make A Stand"!! Suddenly,  like a  miracle work of God, things dramatically changed right in front of me. It slowly took place day after day after day,until it renews my every tomorrow. If only their were enough words or a proper way of saying it, I would have. The pain have gone, everything make sense.  Now when I look back at those days, the days that use to tare me up, the days where I use to wonder how far is it gonna be. I just look at me, look up, Thank God and say Its a Mans Walk Of Life!!  The Bad days are there to act as a Stepping Stone..

 Amen.

Just a word of advise for all of you out there facing hardship at this very moment, I advice you now, Bare it, Because the Benefit lies behind it is just amazing. More then anything you could ever ask for...

God Bless!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Take Me As I Am"
I can say waiting on my troubles
I believe, I've gone stronger than before
I have dreams, so many had been answered so let them be
Am not asking anymore I still search for that satisfaction
That the battle is won, when I found my faith and the place I belong

But until that day I'll be walking on to another place
Just drift along, till I find somebody
Who'll be my guide, make me feel alive
Will take me as I am, and that's when I'll know I found my destination
Whoo-oo, who'll take me as I am and never let it go and be my inspiration
Oo girl!! be my inspiration

It's alright, 'cause looking till tomorrow in my style
I take things one day at a time, I don't realize I'm drivin' in my sorrows to get by
I take those worries in my stripe there'll be trails there'll be tribulations
But where ever I roll, I hope the path I take will lead me back home

But until that day I'll be walking on to another place
Just drift along, till I find somebody
Who'll be my guide, make me feel alive
Will take me as I am, and that's when I'll know I found my destination
Whoo-oo, who'll take me as I am and never let it go and be my inspiration
Oo girl!! be my inspiration

Donno what the future holds
I'm happy drivin' down this road
U never know what life brings no no no no

My prophesy will show her face somewhere along the way
As long as I will keep this faith I'll find my destination

But until that day I'll be walking on to another place
Just drift along, till I find somebody
Who'll be my guide, make me feel alive
Will take me as I am, and that's when I'll know I found my destination
Whoo-oo, who'll take me as I am and never let it go and be my inspiration
Oo girl!! be my inspiration